I‘m just looking for advice from people who initially found the idea of not having their children for half the week traumatic, but came through it and found that it was actually fine for their children, and themselves. But also, experiences where it’s not working out, so I can be prepared.
I’m worried about how the DCs (14, 12 & 10) will cope emotionally, and on a practical level. Their DF will be present, but currently spends most of his spare time on his phone/computer, though I’m hoping he will put more effort in when I’m no longer around.
Also, do your children manage OK with the chopping and changing between two houses? What have you/they found difficult, and how have these issues been overcome, or are they still ongoing?
Things that my DCs have mentioned so far include:
DC10: how will we make sure that they get their favourite teddies to each house, and not forget them?
Making sure that they have PE kits and swimming kits at both houses.
I don’t want to only have them 50% of the time, but I think a court would insist on it, apart from my son (14) who has expressed that he would rather be with me in the week.
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NeverGuessWho · 24/01/2020 05:21
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