I just can’t figure out what to do and asked the welfare officer of a club I’m in and she suggested here, I’m a long time user who’s name changed of course. H doesn’t want to separate calls me a stupid little cow and pushes past me to leave the room when I talk about separation. when I get him at a ‘good time’ he says “well there’s the door” but I have no where to go whereas he has parents nearby. as for putting up with it for now no sorry I’ve done that for four years I’m done now. he’s been on the settee all that time he’s engineered things so I’m barely here anyway and I’ve had enough. he’s refused mediation twice which finally broke my heart. any separation efforts solicitor etc which I can’t afford anyway will make him more unpleasant and he’ll definitely not go to mediation or sign anything anyway so I don’t see how I can start with him in the house? there’s also the matter of four children. I just don’t see what he gets from making me so unhappy and I really feel like I need another person to really hold my hand and guide me. citizens advice left me crying “what do you expect me to do?” “usually the man leaves” I’m just stuck. and heartbroken
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I need a separation doula or some help
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needtoseperate · 20/01/2020 09:19
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