Want to divorce but he has no one(2 Posts)
Sjm75 Fri 03-Jan-20 15:01:52
Aquamarine1029 Fri 03-Jan-20 15:07:24
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I have been married 3 years,together for 9. We are at the end of our marriage due to his intimacy issues. Years of trying to make it work and trying every route possible have proved fruitless and I can no longer live in a sexless marriage. There is no hatred and i know he loves me. What I'm finding hard is that he has no one, no real friends or siblings to turn to and without me he will be alone. His issues mean relationships are difficult and he wont want to try again. How do I deal with that guilt/help him to move on? I worried I'll stay because I feel sorry for him
His lack of friends or family is not your responsibility. It would be awfully silly and tragic to condemn yourself to a miserable marriage due to misplaced guilt over something that's not your problem. He's an adult, it's his job to sort his own personal relationships.
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