I seperated from my husband in May. I moved out with kids. I saw a solicitor recently and decided to go ahead with divorce proceedings. I think he would rather wait 18 months. To let things settle. Have the strength to progress. He is the high earner so would be paying ultimately through the money he gives me each month for the kids. It's a decent sum so I should be enough and my rent is covered by him. He's in the house and I'm on maternity leave still. Our monthly costs combined are very high and I'm worried about solicitor costs I must admit. I've started the ball rolling now. I'm wondering whether to proceed or halt things for now. I suppose what I'm asking is. Are there any advantages to pressing ahead now with this. My family think there is no good time to do it and I should continue. I on the other hand after looking after two small children majority of the time which as many if you know takes time and energy. I'm wondering if I should let things settle or crack on?
Any advice? Thanks 😊
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cantbeatfreshsheets · 13/10/2019 09:49
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