Discovered partners secret life after I went through his phone (something I’ve never done before) after he started acting really suspiciously, coming home late, stopped having sex, being totally off. Looking back now he hid it terribly.
Anyway he still living in the house. After many arguments I’ve asked him to leave multiple times. Not only has he totally betrayed me but is also verbally abusive. Called me names in the past I wouldn’t imagine calling anyone including shaming and racist remarks towards me.
There’s one problem
The house is in both of our names. We are a young couple and he earns considerably more money than me so he had put more money into the house than me, however, I have put practically every penny I have into this house let alone decorated every room and take care of the house over all. So I am left with nothing if I leave and don’t really have anywhere to go.
We don’t have any children.
We are not married.
My question is how do I get this bastard out and keep the house to myself? Is there a way? I’ll take anything!
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Cheating Partner won’t leave the house we both own
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KeepingTheHouse · 01/10/2019 13:09
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