So I don't know if I being unreasonable. Hubby left in March and stated dating some in May, he'd met her in the previous September and she's has already met my kids but while we were together, they met a a weight club so he'd take the kiddies along sometimes.
Anyway he wants to introduce her and I've said no not now, not never, just not now. He says he's not really introducing her as they already know her, they spent a day together in May when he had the kids, he said our daughter who is 6 doesn't know the difference between friend and girlfriend which I get and I do believe he would tso it in the right way... Slowly as he has slareday told me so it's not how he wants to do it I have an issue with I just think its to soon. That other thinga is that they are moving in together soon so I have said no over nights if this happens. He has told me that his girlfriend will stay with her parents on the nights he has the children.... Again I feel that is reasonable...
Am I being unfair... I just feel its to early, my girl is still coming to terms that her dad has left so I don't want to upset anything... And neither does he but in the same breath wants to introduce them.
I've thought that November would be okay as this would be 6 months into thier relationship and as he said it's serious so I have said if this is the case then they have time to do this in a slow way but he doesn't seem happy with that.
Maybe I'm being a but unfair... I don't know what to do for the best
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AIBU not letting hubby introduce new girlfriend yet
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Gempeatea · 18/08/2019 10:45
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