So its 3 weeks on since I found out about my husbands affair. Tried talking to him last night (noticed his ring is off too) when he came to see ds. I was asking him why if he isn't still seeing this woman did he throw away 17 years together? Was it sex? The thrill?
All I want him to say is hes so sorry, hes been stupid, it was excitement.he was bored.
He keeps saying to me he hasn't felt that same way about us for a year and wasnt happy together that's why he cheated which is news to me, life was normal and contented.
Is this normal for a man to try and deflect blame, to try and make themselves feel better? Why cant he just admit hes done a horrible thing instead of trying to shift blame? I'm struggling to cope today x
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Husband blaming me for affair?
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Boozysuzy84 · 16/08/2019 17:35
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