Myself and ex partner decided to separate about 2 months ago. We have a 3 year old boy. We still live together in the house we jointly own.
I’m doing my absolute best at trying to find somewhere else to live, however we all know these things take time and in the meantime we are living under the same roof.
Ex is on dating apps, meeting other women, sleeping with other women, sits on the sofa next to me on his dating apps etc. And I’m finding it so hard to deal with. I know us seperating is the right thing (it was my decision) however I still have feelings and he’s hurting them. The thought of him with someone else obviously still makes me feel sick.
So question is...
How do I be a strong, independent woman and an amazing mum whilst coping with this going on right under my nose???
Please throw any and all advice my way. How can I distract myself? How can I rise above it? How can I stop myself being jealous? How can I be the best person I can be whilst he’s making me want to rip his head off? lol.
Jokes aside I am heartbroken and struggling and any advice would really help me right now. Xxx
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Redmama24 · 30/07/2019 22:26
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