Just wanting a virtual hand hold really. H and I were supposed to be going away for the weekend to celebrate our wedding anniversary, but we've had a row and now it's all off. Basically H has two sides to him, the good side and the bad side. I've lived with him and his moods for a long time, but lately it's been making me more angry than sad and I tend to fly off the handle at the smallest thing.
I got home from work yesterday excited about the weekend and I could tell he was in a mood. I asked if he was excited and he said "not particularly". I couldn't believe it, we've been talking about it for months!
So this morning he was still in his mood and basically we had a row while getting petrol and he stormed off. What happened was, I needed to go in the supermarket so he stayed in the car. When I returned he had gone. I thought he'd ditched me seeing as we have had a low level quarrel since last night. Then he turned up and said he was going to get petrol while I was in the shop but then saw me coming out. I asked why he hadn't just told me he was going to get petrol, or phoned. We had another quarrel and he stormed off. I drove home. We weren't far from home so I just thought he'd walk home, cool off and we could make up. But he hasn't returned or phoned.
There have been so many problems between us over the last few years, I feel like this is the last straw for me. I'm sitting at home feeling fed up. Our DD is with her grandparents. What should I do? I'm always the one who phones him and begs to make up, but I just don't want to this time. 😢 I feel so disappointed right now.
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I think it's over between my husband and I
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Crumpledpancake · 27/07/2019 12:11
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