ExH recently moved in with his girlfriend, around 15 miles away. He's now insisting that I either drop off or pick up the DC when they visit him (aged 13 and 10), which is an hour's drive, sometimes more in traffic.
I think this is unreasonable - he's moved away, so he should be prepared to be inconvenienced. He seems them EOW, and every Friday, so a total of 6 nights a month. He pays minimum child support and is generally useless and obstructive in every way possible.
There is a train that runs between our towns that takes 15 minutes and I can meet them at the station. I've suggested he puts them on the train but he insists they're still too young.
Wondered what other people think, am I being unreasonable to insist that he does pick ups AND drop offs? I feel like it's the least he can do considering I do 90% of everything else concerning their welfare and care.
Thanks for your opinions!
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ExH moves away and expects me to share the lifts when DC visiting him
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godiva1999 · 18/07/2019 13:30
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