Hi all,
Need some advice from any fathers or anyone really who have or are going through being denied access to your child after a separation.
My partner and his ex separated at the beginning of this year. She was abusive, was not a nice person so he left. Me and him met a few months later and we are now together, his ex has hit the roof and has been nothing but a pain in the
a$$ since we got together. She believed he would always go back and now he has moved on she is not happy. Anyway they have a 3 year old daughter together and she has 3 children from a previous marriage.
So at the start he would see his daughter once a week and also take her 3 children out at the same time for tea. After a couple of weeks she stopped him seeing their daughter until she was over them breaking up, then a week later she changed her mind and agreed to let him see her and they agreed he would have her every other weekend. He pays her maintenance monthly without fail. She has always been the one to lay down the rules and has done everything in her power to try and cause issues in his life hoping it will affect us. She has said as long as he keeps paying maintenance everything will be fine....
Well this hasn't been the case and now she has decided again that he isn't allowed to see his daughter. She has taken her on holiday for a week to Turkey and is due back today. He hasn't seen his daughter for 2 weeks and only got to see her for an hour under the condition he takes her 3 children out with him as well. Prior to this he last spent quality time with her on Easter weekend.
If he contacts her about access she tells him how it is, shouts and screams at him and she blocks his number and he has no way of contacting her. He is at breaking point as he has done everything he can to try and deal with it outside of solicitors and courts as with how expensive it is.
Does anyone have any advice please? We are st a loose end of what to do.
A father has just as much right to their child as a mother.
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ShiningStar1990 · 05/06/2019 10:28
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