I live with my brother, I'm bedridden and my mother is down the hall and barely gets to the bathroom on a zimmer frame. I start here to establish that my brother has... responsibilities. We're like having two extra children.
He and his ex both lived in Surrey (and we still do). She has moved to Essex assuring him at the time it was only a half hour away (today it took him over 5 hours 'round trip - typically ~2 hours). Her mother lives here in Surrey and she works here at times.
Far more than 50% of the driving burden has been put on my brother. At times when she's here visiting her mother or working she will avoid helping out. Today she told my sixteen year-old nephew that if my brother does not drive back my 9 year-old nephew that 'he will never see him again'.
I will not say my brother is a better parent or try to convince you why. I do not believe in emotional appeals... but she makes this difficult. Can she continue hurting my brother and making my nephew cry without any consequences?
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Who Drives? (custody)
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Zonker · 17/05/2019 19:49
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