Posted about friends divorce (nearly 4th year) before.
Friend has changed solicitors.
At first it was because friend didn’t feel comfortable with this particular solicitor.
We found out after each meeting he would write to her stbexh solicitors with an update of what had been discussed.
I accompanied friend to one of her appointments and felt the Original solicitor wasn’t thinking of how to advise my friend and every suggestion we made was met with how this would affect her ex.
Since leaving however it has come to light in letters to ex’s solicitor that he has been advising ex on how to go about getting the divorce without him getting in trouble with the police and how it would be cheaper for him if he took a certain route as it would leave the bills with friend.
It was truly a shocking letter that friend was charged for.
The new solicitor is having to start again as a lot of forms have not been filled in, the forms that have been filled in apparently say it is a straight forward divorce and make no mention of dv.
Any reference to the dv aspect to the case has been ignored.
Any research in how someone who had said they work below minimum wage manages to spend so much money has not been questioned.
Nor about how much property he owns.
Now we have another problem and don’t know who to complain to or even what to do.
Despite my friend and her new solicitor writing to the original solicitor to say that friend didn’t want to deal with him anymore he won’t leave her alone.
He sent at the start a letter begging her to come back.
Now friend and ex are selling some property that are part of the matrimonial assets,
Both ex (who doesn’t really want these things sold but has reluctantly agreed) and friend want this stuff sold as quickly as possible and they have a buyer however this solicitor is calling up the buyer and telling him to leave well alone.
He is also still billing her for the phone calls and letters he continues to write and make.
Eg he wrote a letter asking friend to discuss with him how they could move forward after friend wrote to him and told him she had hired.a new solicitor and would no longer be dealing with him.
He then sent her a bill for £96 for the cost of writing the letter.
What do you do in this sort of situation?
Friend feels like she is not only battling her ex but now someone who was supposed to be looking out for her interests.
At the moment he has run up several hundred pounds in charges which he sends friend a monthly update of despite no longer being friends solicitor.
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divorcequestions · 25/04/2019 01:44
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