Hi, I changed names for this. I am planning on separating from my DH in the next few weeks. Things had been really bad for a while and then he realised I might be planning on separating a few weeks ago so he has restricted access to money for me. He hasn’t completely cut me off but he has removed my access to all savings in his name (don’t have any in mine as they were all recently spent on something, we knew he would be getting a large bonus days later). I have reason to think he has moved it with a view to trying to make sure I never have any of it. In the meantime he wants us to fix things but I don’t, says the money restriction is temporary as he doesn’t trust me, ie is expecting I will ask to separate. There is a bigger back story I don’t feel able to share right now, hope that is ok? Sorry.
Am seeing a solicitor soon but wondered, in the meantime, what paperwork should I try to get hold of? I’ve hidden the children’s passports and birth certificates at a friend’s house (I don’t think he would do anything like that but he is from overseas and I don’t want to take chances). Please can you tell me what paperwork I should be looking for? Thanks so much.
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Bitscared19 · 17/04/2019 13:27
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