Should I be looking to be reasonable about divorce timescale? I'm not there yet, but looking it up seems I can apply for a divorce straight away on the grounds of adultery, scumbag ex can apply within 2 years if I agree or I can hold out and make him wait 5 years, which is where my head is at now, honeslty because I'm in F* you mode. Am I just making it more difficult for myself?
Given how he has acted, I also want to give the kids time to get their heads round what has happened before he gets the chance to just move on and keep himself happy. I'm just not sure if this is taking bitchmode too far.
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kayaholly · 06/03/2019 12:43
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