Stay or go

Hi confused one
My opinion is this; I think ultimately it depends what outcome you want. Councilling can and does work but if only one party wants it then it won't, as in my case, I would have but she wouldn't have. What's going to make you happy in the long term? some people stay together for the wrong reasons, like they don't think they could cope on their own or they wouldn't find anyone else. Even in the case of children they are happier in a happy household whether that's one parent at a time or both. True in my case anyway.

No for all your sakes do something
Counselling..I still believe despite my personal crap that marriages should be worked on if possible before throwing it away .If all doesn’t work at least you know you have tried.

Not much advice I'm in a similar situation but I think living in unhappiness will lead to anger and resentment.