Help. It's over wtf do I do now.

[brokeninsideandscared]

This is very outing so NC (and I know the OW is here too, hi ho)

He's leaving. I'm devastated.

Got kids.

I'm keeping the house. I earn the money.

There is an OW.

Not going to divorce him. Can't afford that anyway.

I own half his business too. Not financially (though I've put a lot of joint money in) but on paper and time invested too, as have my family members.

What now?

[millymollymoomoo]

Why aren’t you divorcing? Has he agreed you keep the house?

[brokeninsideandscared]

Can't afford it. And I am bitter and want to make life difficult for him. Though I know that will change.

He's said I can keep the house. It was mortgaged in my name on my salary anyway. He is a decent guy in some ways and is too scared of my dad! sorry not appropriate to joke I guess.

Going to drink shit loads of wine and think about eating something.

[Jujaya]

Same here. 10 year marriage over but it is over cycling. He would rather ride a bike than ride me.

[millymollymoomoo]

I’d personally suggest you divorce and get a clean break order as part of that before he changes his mind on making financial claims on the house and any other possible assets