This is very outing so NC (and I know the OW is here too, hi ho)\n\nHe's leaving. I'm devastated. \n\nGot kids. \n\nI'm keeping the house. I earn the money.\n\nThere is an OW. \n\nNot going to divorce him. Can't afford that anyway. \n\nI own half his business too. Not financially (though I've put a lot of joint money in) but on paper and time invested too, as have my family members. \n\nWhat now?