Hello, please can someone advice, I’m heartbroken, my 12 year son decided he wants to live with dad & older brothers... I left in 2017 with my 12 year old to a refuge as it was unbearable living at home, domestic violence towards me & mental abuse which I think it’s much worse... I left 3 adult sons with dad. We had final (5th) court hearing last year, which resulted in 75/25 in my favour, As I was primary carer for my son. Ex wasn’t happy saying to judge he’ll try to get 12 year old too so all 4 sons can live with him in the house... We own another property in cyprus which my husband wasn’t happy me telling court about, he said few years ago that if I told court , he’ll make sure this situation don’t end even in 5 years... I declared everything including him working at cafe for 8 years,(eX told judge he never got paid), also his ice cream buisiness van he has (ex declared he only earns £12,000 a year), which I know it’s lie, but can’t prove, as it’s all cash in hand, I didn’t want nothing from his buisiness as its his living.. he also told the judge he’ll transfer his car to me, but since found out from police that it was transferred to someone else since January 2018, and court was in August! He’s a manipulative horrible controlling person, I’m heartbroken as how the kids can’t see it... what I want to know is can the court order be changed now the 12 went to live with him? Sorry long post, I’m angry upset feeling heartbroken
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