Hi all, hope you might be able to help with this one.
I am hoping to move house somewhere cheaper in the near future but will not be able to do the same level of childcare as I do now, in fact only weekends and school holidays potentially.
Two of my three children are usually unwilling to come to my house anyway (they are teenagers).
I have a mesher order on the house with the usual trigger points but now I'm planning to move my ex doesn't want the responsibility of looking after the children more and is planning to sell the house. I won't be able to buy anything like the same quality of house in the same area to house them when she, as she says, moves into a small flat with our daughter and turns the care of our two sons over to me. I don't own a house.
My understanding was that the deal we made at the divorce was to provide a home for the children but she wants to force a sale so she can live virtually mortgage free while I struggle to house myself, my wife and two boys. Any thoughts or suggestions gratefully received!
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Followmedown · 28/01/2019 11:45
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