DD is 12. For the last 3 months she's refused outright to see her dad. We split 10 months ago & it's been brutal to say the least. Constant messages from exH, nasty things being said & on one occasion physical violence. Having tried to get exH to come to DD & spend the day with her he tells me "not to worry" or that she doesn't seem interested when he texts her. Everything I've suggested from taking her out for the day to just being at mine with DD is a problem for exH. He had dinner with her once at mine, snooped through my house & sent me disgusting messages while I was out accusing me of all sorts. I suggested he spends NY with DD at mine. He agreed, then today has changed his mind because he doesn't want to be in the same room as me.
It's been like this for 3 months. DD says she wants to be at home more rather than travelling an hour to his. She's also told me when she's at his they don't do anything. She sits in her room watching TV. But with exH fluttering back & forth with his decisions too I'm reluctant to tell DD any plans with him because he changes his mind depending on his mood with me. I'm at a loss now.
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DD not wanting to see exH.
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CoconutGal · 26/12/2018 19:29
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