My ex is incredibly charming at the start of a relationship. I have escaped from years of emotional and financial abuse and as per thread title, he was arrested for attempting to break my arm. No witnesses so cps didn't prosecute, it was "soft tissue damage only" as I got him off before he broke anything.
I now find out he's in a new relationship. I'm struggling a bit with feeling disloyal to the poor woman that I could save her from similar physical abuse, but also feel it's none of my business and she will be told by him I'm a psycho and a liar.
He won't come up on a clares law disclosure as he is a tricky bugger and didn't physically assault me until I was out of his power to emotionally abuse me or restrict my money, then he made sure there were no witnesses.
He's already conditioned most of our mutual friends to think I'm some kind of nutjob kicking him out when he was the perfect person...
What would you do?
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Would you want to know if your new boyfriend had been arrested for trying to break his ex's arm?
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Originallymeonly · 16/12/2018 20:27
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