Hi, thanks for reading. My sister is very loved up so I don't think she's thought her situation through. I'd love to know where she stands.
Her: 40, rented flat, in London. No dc.
Him: 55, CO-HABITING. Partner similar age, kids 12 and 8. Also London.
House bought between Partners 15 years ago, now worth £750k. He wants to leave to live in a bedsit so he can start relationship with my sister on an equal footing.
He has told his Partner that she and kids can stay in the house indefinitely as long as his name stays on deeds. In lots of ways this is admirable, but when he and my sister get together, is it fair that his "first family" get to stay in This house whilst she and he share rented accommodation?
I'm prepared to be flamed but I'm worried she's getting a bad deal due to starry eyed state of being in love at 40.
Or should I butt out?
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Help me advise my sister
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parkinpig · 10/12/2018 17:02
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