I could use a little feedback because I’m facing something brand new in my life and it is destroying me. Me and my wife have been together over 10yrs and married over 5 of them. My wife has recently told me she doesn’t love me anymore and hasn’t for awhile. She can’t even tell me one thing she loves about me or that made her fall in love with me in the first place. She says she cares about me still and that I didn’t do anything wrong and that she has been super unhappy. She says it’s her and that she needs to figure out who she is and what she wants in life. She says her ultimate goal is to come back and be with me but she can’t until she figures this stuff out because she is tired of being fake and doesn’t want to string me along.
She moved out while I was gone for a couple days with work. I came home and all her stuff was out. We currently have an arrangement with our two young children where they live with me and she will be at my home with them after they finish school till I get home. She still cooks dinner most of the time and we talk almost every night for quite awhile on the phone like we did when we were dating.
I guess I’m wondering if this is a fairly common thing and if the space apart ever works out good for anyone?
She still wants to have sex with me which is important because it makes me feel as if she has no commitment to anyone else.
I just love her so much and can’t understand how she can just stop loving me just like that. Ive often told my friends how lucky I was to have such a good cool wife. Ive always felt blessed in a way. I’ve given her pretty much anything she ever asked for and done all the things we could possibly do that she wanted. We are a great team and in my eyes achieved so much. We don’t fight about hardly anything, just little typical married couple arguments here and there.
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Divorce/separation
My wife lost herself
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Brandon85 · 09/12/2018 03:43
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