Hi, recently separated from my husband. Married 5 years and together nearly 20. Two children, in their mid teens, who live with me full time but see their father a few times a week.
We've not talked about divorce yet and I don't want to bring it up as at the moment exdh is still paying into our joint account and funding his own flat out of his own personal account.
Just wondering what financial situation I would be if/when it comes to divorce.
I currently earn nearly as much as dh but it's taken me a long time to get there. I've had years being part-time.
We have about 70,000 left on the mortgage of the family home which would sell for about 350,000. DH has a senior teacher's pension and he was planning to retire at 60 (he's currently 55). Me too but mine is much less as I didn't start teaching until I was older and I'm younger.
As I understand it, I can be made to sell the family home when the children are no long dependent (21 or older, they both plan to go to university?). Will this be split 50/50? And what about dh's pension? Would he still contribute to the dcs' university fees etc after divorce or does he only need to pay child maintenance.
Thanks in advance. Am completely in the dark about these things and the separation is very new and raw.
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nostaples · 06/12/2018 19:51
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