Husband cheated on me in February, I found out mother’s day. During spring he ignored me and our kids (4 &7) to spend drunken weekends with her, her 8 year old and even her and his family all together. He told me in May they “didn’t have any plans to see each other any more and it was all my fault”. He is controlling, emotional abusive and sends me harassing emails most weeks.
I was pretty sure he was lying - i’m certain she went on a family holiday with him and all his family (who covered up the one night stand) back in July. I’m certain the reason he moved out of his mum’s place is to get somewhere she and her daughter can come and stay. He has moved in the flat NEXT door to his mum, but 50+ miles away from his kids and work.
I know she visits him them, I found her make, tampons etc in the bathroom when I dropped the kids off and he invited me in for a cuppa.
We didn’t tell the kids we were separating until August. He now is hinting that he wants to kids to meet her in 2 weeks time - but hasn’t actually told me that. Instead he is saying that I need to behave sensibly so that he can be open with me. So that I hear things from him first and not the children.
My children have still been processing this info since August. My daughter (7) has only told a couple of very close friends because she is still upset by it.
What can I do? I know I can’t veto his decision. But when I comes to our children surely I should have some input. BTW, both my husband and his whore have admitted to alcoholism, and taking cocaine together.
I cannot stand the idea of him introducing his woman to my children. Like daddy already has a new family with another little girl.
I want to punch both him and his bitch in the face
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