Dealing with the other women

[Lovechilli]

A year ago I found out my husband was having an affair with one of my best friends who is also a school mum, I crushed like nothing else, the betrayal from both of them is hard.
Since then he has been seeing her but telling me how much he still loves me and the mistake he has made, she smirks at me in the playground everyday and has given all 3 of my children dirty looks, my 10 year has been through a lot of anxiety about going into school because he doesn’t want her to look at him, on the request of my son I informed the police as my son was vomiting and shaking to go into school, they passed it over to children’s services, I confronted her and it has stopped by my ex will not believe that it happened no matter how ill he saw his son become and no matter what my son tells him, I don’t know how to handle it at all.
He is adamant that she is sweet person who would never do anything to upset anyone, any advice please.

[BackInTheRoom]

Yes he'll take her side probably because he's already rewritten history making you the bad guy and her the good guy. Can I ask, why are you still with him?

[sportsdirectmug]

Why on earth are you with this horrible man?

[Lovechilli]

Sorry only just seen the replies, I’m not with him, he is my ex, sorry I don’t think I made that clear

[FromDespairToHere]

Sorry, what exactly has she done that you reported to the police?