My husband has recently announced he is leaving. I have been a SAHM to DC who are nearly 4 and nearly 7 for the past 4 yrs.
I don't really feel I can trust him at all in any way - but especially from a financial point of view. I'm a bit worried about him trying to fleece me.
He has his own business and I know nothing about how much it's worth etc. Does anyone know how easy it will be for him to hide money from the solicitors, if we go down the legal route?
Also, when he first announced that he wanted out, he said he would continue to pay the mortgage and the bills until I was back on my feet career wise. He's paid it all since we have been married so this isn't a new thing. I'm a bit worried though as I saw a message come through on his phone from his friend, encouraging him to move his money (hide it) and sell the family home. What happens if he suddenly decides he can't afford to pay & wants to sell the house?
Does he have to continue paying for everything, as he has done for years - or is that a choice? Can he put our house up for sale if he wants to? I'm not in a position at the moment to pay the mortgage and bills.
Hoping to get myself back to college and get some qualifications behind me, for some security and so I will be able to pay for much more eventually.
Don't feel like I can trust him at all and he's definitely up to something.
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topoftheworld1 · 01/09/2018 22:52
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