Hi everyone. I've mostly been adding to the "Support thread for those divorcing against their stbex wishes " thread but have a specific area to ask you all about so new thread it is!
Myself and Ex are partly through our divorce process. Currently still in family home.
We have 2 children (DS 12 and DD 9) and it's been on my STBXH's insistence that we split the childcare 50/50. without going into the nitty gritty (don't wish to be identified) I have some concerns over my Ex's ability to parent. In no way do I think they will be put to harm in any direct sense - just I have my doubts (based on experience) that he wont be able to do a great job. I have genuine reasons for doubting his ability.
Question is has anyone else come out the other side of this?? Did your ex partners prove you wrong and actually end up doing a grand job and you co-parent well.... or has anyone gone to court based purely on childcare (rather than division of money) and how did it turn out.... or has anyone started with a 50/50 co-parent arrangement then had to go to court at a later date when your fears were realised and you feel you had to intervene for the sake of your kids??
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Co-parenting and concerns over Ex's abilities
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iamthrough · 31/07/2018 14:40
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