We are divorced and the arguing continues relentlessly although I expect he feels the same.
Me: I have the two children aged 12 and 15.
Him: Due to a drink problem and aggressiveness the courts/cafcass have given him limited access. Our eldest child at 15 decided she doesnt want to see him at all as he was violent towards her and the court upheld this. He has our younger daughter for half day on Sunday and one evening weekeday but she cannot stay overnight.
Now that is sorted it is down to the financials which basically is the house.
I'm living in it at the moment with our children. I had the house before I met him (it was only worth 275,000 then)but it has jumped up in value over the past 10 years and is worth about 500,000 with 100,000 still owing. It seemed a lot until we start working out how much each of us is likely to get and whether we could afford new homes with the proceeds. I'm told the split could be close to 50/50 which seems very unfair although I don't want to seem greedy or unreasonable.
Any thoughts or advice/
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Summersweet · 23/07/2018 14:35
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