Is it best to tell our children about our split/divorce now or to wait until after DD has started secondary school?
My husband admitted only two weeks ago that he is having an affair but he also told me that he had another 5 year affair that started when DS was only a baby. I'm having a difficult time getting my head around this but wanted to keep things amicable for the kids' sake. We'd both said that we would like to wait and tell the children after DD started secondary school in September and use the time until then to agree all the arrangements (so we could tell DC exactly how things will work going forward).
However, he is not showing any consideration or compromise from his side and has today chased me about issuing the divorce peititon (today is our wedding anniversary!). I'm not sure I can keep up the pretence until September if I don't see that he is trying from his side.
Would it be better to tell the children now as I'm also sure that they are noticing the arguments and the fact that mummy is upset/snappy all the time?
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rainbowswillreturn · 03/07/2018 12:10
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