My husband left a month ago out of the blue he said he wasn't in love with me anymore. We have been together 12 years and married for 4. We have a 20month old little boy (currently the only reason I'm keeping going)
We have been very amicable since he left and has regular access to our son. We've been getting on well and it is almost like we've gone back to how we were when we were 16. I cringe saying this but the sexual tension is intense. Cutting along story short we have slept together twice since he's left. This week he asked me to come over to the place he is staying one evening so we can do it again. Last night I messaged him and said I was worried about us sleeping together again because I feel unsure as to whether he's pursing the single life and seeing other people. He said no and then asked if I had been reading his fb messages. Cutting a very long story short this rung huge alarm bells and I ended up reading his fb messages (wrong I know!) so that night he had messaged four different women whom he'd worked with over 2 years ago asking how they were and then informing them he's left me etc. I feel heartbroken and physically sick again and like I have no idea who this man is!
I want to be strong and tell him to f**k off but when I see him I want him to come back and us be a family again. I don't eat, sleep or function properly and feel like my marriage has been a complete lie. Any words of advice or support please help I feel alone even though I have lots of family and friends none of them are divorced or separated. Apologies for huge message x
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Cdavies15 · 27/06/2018 19:43
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