We’ll be moving out of the family home shortly. Doing fairly well at keeping it amicable but my youngest is taking it badly.
He keeps asking why we have to split up.
I’ve told him we’re not working as a family, that it’s always me and the DCs doing family things together etc.
He just keeps asking why we can’t just make it work.
Truth is, DH doesn’t want to anymore - he tried to do the family thing when he met us but it hasn’t worked out. I’ve tried to get him to change but it’s ultimately unfair to ask someone to be someone they aren’t.
I don’t want to blame him. DS adores him.
Any idea how to help him? He’s 12.
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How to answer the ‘why’ question?
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NC4Now · 03/06/2018 22:25
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