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STBXH and Dd(1 Post)
STBXH and I have been together since DD was 5. She is now 17. We also have a 3 yr old. One of the reasons for the split is the relationship between them. Despite STBXH bringing her up since she was 5, on a drunken night at 15 she proceeded to tell him that he ‘wasn’t her Dad.’ I had to separate them. Since then, the relationship has been difficult but..... even though we are buying a house, he says there will be a place for the youngest (his) but not her. I think this is harsh. I also think he will regret it. He has said things like she is not welcome once she moves out etc: I have told him that being a parent is forever but I suppose it is up to him how he deals with it. I know he must be hurting because she is a typical teenage bugger but I don’t want them to completely lose touch or regret as they may both regret that in the future. Obviously these are not the only reason we are splitting but I have no one else to sound this off on. STBXH hasn’t told his mother still (who I get on very well with) and I feel I have no one to talk to. If anyone has experience of this, would be appreciated x x
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