My stbx will buy me out of the house, i will then buy something, somewhere. This is sort of agreed without going to court. Children will live 60:40 with me/him. Im finding it hard to reconcile that he will maintain the 'nice' house and standard of living and i will only be able to afford a smaller, much less nice house/ less nice area . I am getting more equity, but he earns a lot more though so can afford the bigger mortgage to keep house and buy me out. Aside from my own personal sorrow at this i worry the children will prefer time at dads due to better house etc. Does anyone else have experience of this - how did you come terms with it?
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