I have a 3.5years old and a 2 years old and going through a separation.
My husband has moved in to a 2 bed flat and has asked for 50/50 custody - I have agreed as he is a great father to the children, and it would hurt all parties if it was any other way.
We had our first few nights with the husband and it has been heartbreaking. They have screamed til they were sick; crying for me; shouting that it isn't their house and that it isn't fair ....
I don't know what to do .... do we stop overnight stays until they are a bit more settled? How do we adjust them to this new arrangement? Any advice at all would be much appreciated - all out hearts are breaking and I am at a loss to ease their pain.
TIA
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3kimple · 09/05/2018 10:36
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