As is. Separated Oct 2016. Last contact initiated by him Nov 2016. He initiated separation. I finished the deed by moving out. Relief all round. \n\nI find it so so sad that after 28 years marriage that it is possible that he has no urge to contact me. Know this is a man thing. But how cold. \n\nI, in the other hand. driven equally by my emotions, want to share when something interesting has occurred or about the children. \n\nKnow this coldness reason I couldn't stay with him and my 'neediness' the reason he can remain absent. \n\nJust thinking publicly. \n\nSimilar experiences?