I’m a bit about this. We’re in the middle of divorce. Ex is very money orientated and was financially and emotionally abusive.
When he last had kids during school hols he was working from home for 3 of the the 4 days he had them- the 4 days included the weekend. Kids had to occupy themselves for most of the time, ages 7, 10, 11. I recognise that sometimes people have to work and look after kids. But he’s now gone on 2 weeks holiday abroad with the OW, and he isn’t working during that. If I’d known he was going to be working whilst he had the kids I would have suggested they stay with me or my parents.
He wants kids more during the week, but he works whilst he’s got them already...and only has them for the eve.
I suspect his incentives for having the kids are financial rather than wanting to spend time with him, but I don’t know what, if anything, I can do about this. Any suggestions?
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Ex working whilst looking after kids.
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dangermouseisace · 20/04/2018 08:08
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