I've been an emotionally abusive relationship for about a decade. The hell I've been through has caused me the most awful anxiety and depression.
My husband started on me again this week, ebbing away at me, everything wrong in his life is obviously my fault, I'm fat, I'm a bore, I only talk about work, I don't do anything fun....
Frankly I'm sick of it and my children said to get out of the relationship because they cannot bear to see me so hurt and upset anymore. They think I'm stupid to keep forgiving him. I do too and I don't forgive him (really forgive, I actually despise the bastard) but it's easier to work things out for a few weeks and because in honesty I'm afraid of what he will do to me. He has been violent in the past.
I have no one to turn to because I've lost all my friends because he basically made it super difficult for me to see them.
I'm literally crying writing this. I have no motivation to do anything.
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Lollypops20181 · 03/03/2018 14:06
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