I've posted a fair bit about my situation: 20 yrs married, 4 kids, H has OW and has, kind of, left: rents a flat nearby, all his stuff still in marital home, finances an ongoing challenge to separate. He is no hurry to actively help us sort all this out. I want to keep the house for the DCs but don't know yet whether I will be able to.
Have any of you arrived at an agreement by looking at bills and actual costs or is the child maintenance calculator the way to go?
And how on earth do I ensure that he actually pays??
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If you agreed a settlement/child maintenance how did you arrive at the agreed sum?
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PerfectlyDone · 17/02/2018 16:49
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