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She says she doesn't fancy Me and wants to split - 2kids, not married.

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Runnerman Mon 12-Feb-18 07:13:25

My partner of 15 days has told me this over the weekend. We haven't had sex for years and through a mixture ignoring it, boozing and busy lives it has been left to fester. We are friends and I love her deeply and I cannot imagine life without us all together, but I feel sick knowing the reality of her not loving me probably for the last several years or her staying with me and not lovubg me. She told me after a girls night out when a close friend confided in her own divorce and my partner took the chance to share her feelings. She says she cant change how she feels. I feel like we must have had these feelings for eachother once and so with counselling a big life style change we MIGHT be able to get a loving relationship back. I really feel lost and would appreciate any help. I don't really have anyone to talk maybe the odd person.

AjasLipstick Mon 12-Feb-18 08:16:05

Has she agreed to counselling?

Runnerman Mon 12-Feb-18 09:43:29

Thanks for responding. No she says no point . I've only half asked I'm still in shock. But understand where she's coming from. I just think it's worth knowing we've tried everything. She says doesn't want to change so sees no point

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