Hi Iv been with my partner 10 years we have 2 children and a house together.
I love him a lot but I basically had to push him into every commitment such as buying a house, car and having kids.
Iv always refused to push him into putting a ring on my finger, because if he really loves me he would ask.
Well 10 months ago I may have pushed him into it when I told him I wanted to change my name via depole to have the same name as our children. He wasn't happy with my it and felt it would make him look bad as a man.
And told me we should just get married tomorrow, at which point I argue I didn't want to just get married, he asked why and I told him he hadn't ask at them he ask if he could do it then and there. He told me his vows instead of asking for my hand in marriage " at this point I realised he had never considered asking me or what he would say when he did"
I brushed it off and said yes. Every since the conversations about getting married and booking a wedding seem to fall on deaf ear and when I book appointment to see venues he makes excuses.
I'm 30 this year, I'm considering leaving him at the end of the year if it carrys one. I really do love him but life to short to force someone into doing something they should want to do them selfs!
Can I also add he's 43 so he's not a spring chicken!
WOULD I BE MAKING A MISTAKE? ARE THESE JUST WORDS THAT I WONT EVER ACT ON?
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10 years, 2 kids & a house but dragging his feet at marriage
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isthismylife88 · 30/01/2018 08:31
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