Hi everyone,
I am about to embark on mediation (shuttle mediation) to get an agreement in place with my STBXH on our children. For context: At the moment he see's them every other weekend and extra in holidays, but is living in his mums spare bedroom. He may, or may not, move out at some point. He has never cooked in 15 years of marriage, the girls are still young, one in nappies, he doesn't change nappies.
I'm not sure what I need to be looking for in an agreement. I want to be able to have contact in writing, but also levels of communication and he is very nasty about me to the children and it is causing them distress. Health visitors, school nurse and social workers are aware but can I get this get these sorts of things written down? I'm waiting on the initial appointment and just trying to prepare myself! I also would like him to agree to cooking/parenting classes should he move out. Would this be possible?
Help!
Feeling relief I'm out of it but it's a long road!
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FrustrationNation · 11/01/2018 16:46
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