Have posted this in legal advice section too as not sure where best
So I want to separate from my husband. We have a dd.
I currently work ft. He got made redundant 1 yr ago and has made no effort to find work.
I would assume we'd have 50-50 childcare. I think he'd want to have full custody to hurt me. I'd love to have more custody if possible. I could easily do 50-50 even with work as my hours can be arranged so I'm not in 5 days a week.
I'd ideally sell family home and there'd be enough to buy 2 perfectly adequate smaller homes. I'm happy to move out and rent initially as current home has bad memories.
My questions are:
- If we had 50-50 childcare would I have to pay maintenance to husband as I'm the only earner.
I could go part time and still support me and dd on reduced wage if didn't have to pay him.
- Mortgage in joint names. Would i have to keep paying mortgage if I moved out.
- Can he be forced to sell or buy me out.
He's EA of me and I know will do all he can to make my life hell.
We have significant savings between us (ISAs) etc if that makes any difference
Thanks