Initiated split three months ago. Husband refused to move out of family home so I am moving into a rental property with our two DCs (6 & 11) Moving out in two weeks.
I have spoken to a solicitor and we’ve gone through a checklist, most of which STBXH agreed to. However solicitor has said the most important thing is that I have his written consent to taking kids out of the family home, otherwise he could get a court order to get them back at a later date.
He’s since been made aware of this and the one thing he won’t do is give me consent. He says ‘he’s still thinking about it’ Fucking infuriating. The split hasn’t been particularly amicable but it’s been pretty unemotional. He just wants to get some control back and make me suffer.
We are moving to a property very close by and have agreed a rota for the kids, split about 60/40.
I do not want to beg him to give me consent. This is all about power to him. I’m really tempted to call his bluff and just go. He doesn’t have the funds or the energy or time to get a court order on me and I’m sure he wouldn’t do anything dramatic like try and hold them hostage in the house on move day.
Any advice? I don’t know what to do ..
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Leaving family home with kids but without STBXH’s consent
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godiva1999 · 25/11/2017 08:52
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