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Divorce/separation

Life is miserable

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Cakebaby123 · 05/11/2017 17:45

So here i am. Life is miserable.
Husband clearly doesn't love me and resents breathing the same air as me. The end is quite clearly nigh.
I'm a SAHM, absolutely no income and no family or friends nearby.
How do I leave? Where can I go, the kids school is right on our doorstep. I don't want to go far but bringing the kids up in this unhappy home is not an option.
Anyone else been in this situation and come out the other end?

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RandomMess · 05/11/2017 17:57

Well you don't necessarily leave, ask him to move out whilst finances are discussed and agreed to spare the DC the hostile environment.

I suggest you get legal advice prior to having this conversation though. Go armed with all the financial information you can lay your hands on - value of home, size of mortgage, H earnings, savings, assets (such as cars) and debts.

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BackInTheRoom · 06/11/2017 13:20

There are options available to you it's just that when you're in the shit, you panic and feel trapped. Stay put and get an hours legal advice, see/read about benefits you're entitled to and don't panic! 💐

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