Hi, Just some advice needed... I have 2 boys aged 3 and 5 years old. Their dad and I separated last Sept and me and the boys moved out of the family home (as mortgage in his name only and he wouldnt move out)
Well since Sept 16, he has had the boys overnight on a Tues and taken them to school/nursery on a weds morning and then one overnight stay every weekend (either fri or sat night)
Since Feb 17 he began a new relationship with an old friend... she has a 4 year old daughter. In May he introduced them all to each other and has now started asking for more nights with the kids. He wants to now have 50/50 residency in place.
I am against this whilst the kids are this young and believe he only wants to change now to impress in his new relationship... He has written me letters, text me, harassed me on handovers for more time... and now he is threatening to take me to court... will he get granted his 50/50?! We have tried mediation, but nothing much came out of it apart from his absolute determination to take the kids when and how he wants them...
Totally panicking as dont want to not see my children this much (plus the reason the relationship broke down in the first place was because he was so interested in work and not spending any time with us as a family...!!)
Thanks in advance - sorry for the life story :)
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Nat885 · 26/10/2017 21:22
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