How do I leave the marital home with 3 kids and move to the other end of the country - I have no job, no house and £260 total in the whole world (that’s probably not enough for train tickets to the destination). I also don’t have a car or drivers license. My husband is unhappy with the marriage and left. I do not wish to remain here and want to move back to my hometown and family. He has not made it clear if he intends to return or how I am to support the family now. I currently don’t work due to my teenager being suspected asd / self harm/ suicidal thoughts on waiting list for Camhs a year now. If I did work it would likely be for min wage. Area I want to return to is UC system. It sounds impossible. Should I just remain and see if husband returns?
I already have my own separate bank account - we have never had a joint account. I don’t have any access to money he earns and never have. He doesn’t give me money but he does usually pay the mortgage and bills. I use child allowance for things the children need and Childrens tax credits for food shopping and he would normally do some food shopping too.