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lippy72 Fri 20-Oct-17 22:22:02

Not sure how to proceed , been separated for 6 months after being left for ow, that relationship has now broken down and stbxh. Has moved into a rented flat. Agreed I would buy out of house but most of this would go to clearing debts but we would both be clear. However not wanting to now proceed until a consent order is in place due to risk and he won't agree to divorce now..

I am now being told stbxh can't afford any child support, he is paying back money owed to family for flat deposit, I'm being told I get all the benefits (cb and tc) so shouldn't need it!

Major guilt trip will make him homeless if I pursue it etc etc feel like saying stuff it I can cope on my own not sure what to do now ?

outabout Fri 20-Oct-17 22:26:18

Talk to CAB and armed with a list of important questions, speak to a '30 minutes free' solicitor to get a better grip of the options.

Myheartbelongsto Sat 21-Oct-17 15:54:39

Your children are your priority here not him. He will have to manage someone. No doubt like you did when he upped and left.

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