I was wondering whether anyone might have experience of this. I am realizing more and more that my husband does not care about crushing the last remnants of our relationship even for the sake of our children. History is some violence a long time ago, loads of emotional and verbal abuse, then long term adultery. He is being horrendous throughout this process. He doesn't move on any point, just keeps re-stating his position until we move to get things moving. I don't want to go into an FDR and to be encouraged to negotiate with him, it will be lose all the way for me. I would rather let a judge decide. He threatened me on Sat that he could make things much worse and ever since then I have a sinking feeling in my stomach. It is soul destroying going through this and knowing that there will not be a shred of goodwill left at the end. Our poor kids. My question is can I cancel the FDR and request to move to Final Hearing? FDR would not be from an equal standpoint as he has been conducting abuse for years and he will not be there to reach any middle or common ground.
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